Barbara Bartlein Announces Holiday Tips for Blended Families

The Holidays are right around the corner and some folks are already arguing about where, when and with WHO they are going to spend time. With almost 50% of marriages not succeeding, many families struggle with how to split the Holidays so that children get time with both parents.

But more and more families are abandoning the model of separate celebrations, split Holidays and stony greetings. Instead divorced couples with new spouses in tow are spending Holidays together; adopting an attitude of tolerance and understanding.

A number of trends have fuel this change:
• The introduction of no-fault divorce which helped make divorce less acrimonious
• Gen X-er’s who grew up in broken homes and realized how the “divorce war” was played out for years at family gatherings
• Requirements in over 40 states for parents to attend education courses on co-parenting after divorce

But how can your viewers/listeners make this happen in their lives? Is it really realistic to sit at the Holiday table with the ex-spouse and their new love?

Fortunately, Barbara Bartlein, the PeoplePro and author of Why Did I Marry You Anyway? can give your viewers tips to deal with blended family issues.

Please see below for more details—-and if this sounds like a story that would interest your viewers, contact Barbara at: 888-747-9953 or barb@WhyDidIMarryYouAnyway.com

Four Tips for A Happy Holiday Season for the whole family.

1. Celebrate the Holidays together. While it may be uncomfortable initially, most families report that the tension quickly gives way to new friendships and relationships. It is not uncommon for parents and new step-parents to agree on what is best for the kids. Joint gatherings help children feel secure. They still love both of their parents even if they recognize that the marriage did not work.
2. Don’t be selfish. While it may not be your first choice, the kids deserve their celebrations and time with both parents. You might be surprised how it also helps you heal after a painful split.
3. Communicate and coordinate. Work out details of the activities so kids don’t end up in the middle. A brief phone call or e-mail coordinating gifts, meals, and get togethers helps children see that you are united and working together.
4. Establish new traditions. This is a great opportunity to strengthen the family with some new rituals and traditions. And traditions keep families strong.


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Does this sound like a story that would interest your viewers? If so, contact Barbara at 888-747-9953 or barb@WhyDidIMarryYouAnyway.com. To learn more about Barbara, please visit her website at http://www.thepeoplepro.com